The Kingdom Sexuality Podcast is a refreshing blend of truth, tenderness, and boldness. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle tackle the tough and often taboo topics around sex and faith with wisdom and grace. Every episode points you back to God’s design and reminds you that freedom and intimacy can go hand in hand. It’s the kind of podcast every Christian woman (and man) needs in her earbuds.

I wanted to love this podcast SO BAD!! Talking about sex as a Christian in a Godly way is so important and clean resources for married couples are so hard to come by! So I know that they have a great message and intent for this podcast. That being said every question and assumption on their podcast seems to be men trying to get their wives to have more sex… if you are not a husband constantly trying to tear your wife clothes off or a wife that doesn’t enjoy or ever want to have sex this podcast probably isn’t for you. As a wife who loves doing things for my husband and actually has the higher sex drive in my marriage, episode after episode is devaluing my experience and making that feel not normal. If there is ever a question on what to do with mismatched sex drives, they automatically will go to what in the woman’s life is keeping her from wanting to have sex. that’s my biggest issue with this podcast. But I would also like to say that there have been times where they have to stop during a podcast and look things up or don’t know what certain toys functions are and overall seem to lack a little bit of knowledge.

My fiancé found this podcast and shared it with me. I’ve been following the show for a year (and currently working my way through old episodes). We are both widowed and neither had great sex lives with our late spouses, but we have vowed to each other to do better in our future marriage. Listening to this podcast has helped us learn more about each other, store up tips and tricks for the bedroom, gained new information about the anatomy, and brought us closer in our communication. I can’t wait to marry him and put into practice all the great practical things we have learned from KSP.

Right now my wife and I are still healing and repairing trust in our marriage - we are just on the very beginning stages of starting to walk into a season of wholeness and unity. - Listening into your conversations has helped redeem my mind, defeat shame, find hope, and see the powerful gift that God created in a whole new way… you guys have helped me to bring real conversations about sex to my guy friends, and get unashamed about this conversation. I am still learning and still growing - but you guys have helped set my mindset in a whole new direction. I used to think that our sex life would always be broken, and that sex will always just be a thorn within our marriage. You guys have helped me to just totally surrender everything I thought I knew to God, and just trust him within this journey knowing that there is so much better and greater than what so many years of shame, addiction, and the enemy stole from us.

We are 15 years into marriage this year and it has been very good. However, finding your podcast in the last month has taken our sex life to another level. We have both listened to episodes, our communication around sex has increased, and the beauty that has flourished from that has been amazing. Thank you for your open and honest conversation! I have shared this podcast with all of my married friends.

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I love that these podcasts are about half an hour long. Nothing crazy long. Overall, I do really enjoy this podcast as a fellow Christian and as someone who is excited about sex. Some times the episode seems a little unpolished or there is an idea that I don’t 100% agree with. But, I do really enjoy this podcast and most of the ideas present in it. You can tell these people really do care about their audience and finding that harmonious balance of living a life of faith while having a healthy sex life with your spouse.

I discovered KS within the last 9 months or so, and since have listened to their episodes weekly. My husband and I both come from ultra conservative church backgrounds, and with that we have had lots of sexual baggage to unpack. The KS podcasts have brought much hope and encouragement. They have given me the courage to address sexual trauma from my own past, as well as work through my husband’s porn addiction. I thank the Lord often for the work He is doing through Alana, Tiara and Kyle as well as all those they host on their show. THANK YOU!!! 💕

I can not emphasize enough how much the Kingdom Sexuality podcast has helped me personally, and my marriage. I got married young to the man of my dreams who had saved himself for me, but I brought a lot of sexual baggage into our marriage from living in sin before I came to Christ. My marriage suffered a lot during the first year as a result of my baggage. I had so many subconscious issues that were affecting not only my marriage and how I viewed sex, but also how I viewed myself. Listening to the podcast has been life changing. It has given so much practical advice on so many topics regarding intimacy within marriage, and it has also helped my husband and I work together through my sexual baggage and find healing together. It truly has been such a blessing to my marriage and I believe ANY couple can benefit from listening to it. Thank you, KS team, & please keep it comin! 💗⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (Also, I appreciate the 3 different perspectives & how you approach sex from a Christian worldview)

Want to hear more from the women. Otherwise it's a good podcast that everyone in a marriage should listen to

Thank you guys for being so willing and open to actually talk about sex! Being a Christian and trying to get wisdom about intimacy that isn’t worldly is so hard when Christians are being so silent on the topic thank you.✨

My husband and I both wish we had found this podcast before we had gotten married! It is so awesome to hear all of the topics that were never talked about - to be normalized and talked about with a positive and hope-filled attitude. We have used this podcast as a resource throughout our marriage and plan to listen in for the long term!

This podcast has been an absolute blessing. Our intimate life is better than ever but even more our connection has become stronger than ever because of opening up more conversation! I appreciate y’all tackling topics generally ignored! Thank you for helping our marriage!

For the past year or so I’ve started discovering and consuming Biblical resources about married sex that challenge the “old school” mindset and this one is right up there at the top. Francie Winslow, Julie Slattery, Sex Chat for Christian Wives and now Kingdom Sexuality! You all have broadened my mind around married sex and God’s true design and intention in a way that 13 years of marriage without these resources couldn’t. One of my most common conversation starters with my husband these days is “so I was listening to this podcast…” I especially love that you offer perspectives of both men and women without being a specific married couple. So much insight is brought to the table by each one of you. I love that you’re down to earth, straight forward, and no nonsense about every topic you discuss and the focus always comes back to the heart of God and how husbands and wives can better serve Him and their spouse. Thank you for such a fabulous resource that is so needed. Keep it up!

They talk about all the topics that don’t get talked about in churches. It’s still hard to bring up different things with my husband but hearing the perspectives and the continual encouragement to communicate, is a game changer for me. Thanks for following the Lords leading. May He bless you richly and anyone who listens.

My fiancé and I are about 4 months out from our wedding. We are currently doing the SYMBIS course at our church and started having more conversations around sex and expectations for when we are married. Those conversations have been a lot easier to think about and talk through because we started listening to this podcast. They have great points and reminders to young couples who are excited, anxious, and even clueless about marriage and sexuality. We really love the down-to-earth conversations and simplistic approach they take. As well as the very positive message of sex being a God sanctioned and very intimate part of marriage. I would recommend this podcast to anyone wanting to a learn about sex because this is a positive and safe place to get information!

My wife and I were recommended Kingdom Sexuality from our brother-in-law before we got married. We both had many questions surrounding healthy sex in marriage but found that most people didn’t want to talk in detail about things. Kingdom Sexuality has been amazing for us and has provoked many fruitful conversations in my wife and I and has also helped our sex life in marriage. I would recommend KS to absolutely anybody who is preparing to get married or even are already married!

I have been following KS on Insta for about a year, but my wife and I have just got connected to the podcast. The podcast, plus the 12 Days of Christmas Challenge, has opened up lines of communication and physical intimacy that we have never experienced in our almost 20 years of marriage. We are excited to continue to grow together with the resources you are providing. Please keep up this tremendous ministry as it blesses my marriage and many other marriages, and points people to the truth of Christ through this great gift of marriage and intimacy!

One of the guys here! I’m getting married in May, and I started listening to the podcast after I saw it was endorsed by Love Your First Year! At first I was a bit shocked by the Instagram page and episode titles, since I’m so used to sex being off limits. I thought, “Sex position posts?? Episodes about orgasms??? Where’s the Christianity??” But once I started listening, I was thoroughly reminded that sex is a very good gift created by our amazing God, and one way I can worship God is to enjoy this gift in marriage and serve my spouse sexually! I am waiting to listen to a lot of the episodes, but I have still learned so many important things to know before marriage, which I would have had no idea about without listening to this podcast! For example, I would have had no idea how important it is to talk about “sexpectations”, to go slow at first, and that it will likely take my wife a longer time to orgasm than me, so I should serve her by leading her toward the “finish line” first! And just basic information about a woman’s cycle, and sexual anatomy has been super helpful! I feel much more prepared to move into our sex life once we are married, and look forward to diving deeper into the episodes at that time! Thank you very much! You guys are the best!

The podcast has been a great way to bring certain topics up in marriage. Even after 20 years of marriage, it’s been a great way to keep things exciting. It’s a little strange that the hosts aren’t married, but it doesn’t negatively effect the show.

I absolutely adore these podcasts and the Kingdom Sexuality Instagram page. They are amazing to listen to, and provide such an amazing insight to what a positive and intimate marriage looks like. If you are looking for new ways to grow your spiritual intimacy with your spouse, I highly recommend these podcasts and these pages. Absolutely amazing!

The hosts are not married to one another, I find it incredibly inappropriate to listen to two “friends” talking about sex to one another without their spouses present. Totally discredits their christian perspective when this is a massive red flag

If you are looking for a better marriage, stronger intimacy, and a way to build stronger connection to your spouse then this is an amazing resource. The conversations are real, feature men and women talking about the topics that the church has long been scared to touch, and glorify God in the process. My wife is not a big podcast person so I haven’t been able to get her to listen to many but she would readily admit that she has benefitted from me taking the initiative to seek and learn.

If you’re looking for healthy wisdom and conversation on Sex as a Christian, this podcast is for you. I’ve grown up in the church my whole life and have heard so many conversations on sex. But these conversations almost always left me feeling a bit confused and even sometimes guilty. It’s no one’s fault, but I think the overall stigma of conversations around sex in the church have have gone a bit off course from the way I believe God intended it to be. Thankfully, there is still hope. Kingdom Sexuality has made a mark in sex conversation in the church in the best way possible. This podcast left me feeling refreshed, more educated and encouraged. After listening to a few episodes, I decided to reach out to the team with some questions I had and was quickly met with encouragement, reassurance & resources. This team is blessing Christian culture with refreshing biblical wisdom & truth. Go check it out!

My husband and I both love this podcast so much! It has given us helpful tips on new things to try, as well as great conversation starters to help us communicate more on the topic of intimacy! We’ve been married for 6 years now, and our marriage is spicier than ever ;) Thank you KS Team!!

I’ve been married for almost a year now (Oct 22nd is my anniversary). Both my wife and I are very inexperienced, and your podcast has been so informative as we’ve learned, explored, and grown. Thank you for the great information while keeping it clean and in line with our Christian values.

So many Christians are scared to touch these topics but this is SO necessary! Thank you for all you do!

Any topic you have questions- any issues you want to hear different perspectives on- want to find a safe place to go that will not compromise your faith and convictions. Tune into Kingdom Sexuality Podcast. It will be well worth it.

I found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast on Instagram and I am so grateful that I did. I have some deep seeded grief and shame when it comes to my sexual past and a choice I made when I was young, and those issues have followed me into my marriage. Learning about sex as God has designed for marriage has helped me break past some of these barriers that my husband and I have experienced as a result of my past. Thank you for sharing about sex from a Biblical perspective - your podcast has been so valuable to me in my healing journey. Keep doing the Kingdom work!

This podcast was a God-find! A friend told me about it back when it was just Paris and Alana, and I had just gotten married. I fell in love with it! Such a precious marriage resource. I love their talks about marriage books and their advice for engaged or newly weds. I do feel like some of the topics have been repeated a few times, but it’s always good to be reminded of things. Thank you Kingdom Sexuality for your heart for serving couples! God is blessing and will bless your efforts!

Great Podcast! I was, at first, reluctant to listening because as a Christian podcast, it might not get deep enough into the realities of marital intimacy. I was sooooooo wrong!!! Thank you for diving into all the different topics and also for sharing your personal experiences. I am currently using this podcast to work on myself first and to also become more aware of what makes my wife tick, how to try to be more understanding, and just to be a better husband. So much of what you three share are so vital and important to a happy and healthy sex life, in God’s eyes. Been listening to new episodes in my car on my commutes Tuesdays and past episodes on Thursdays (I have a hybrid work schedule). Keep up the great work Alana, Kyle, and Tiera!!! Love you all for the inspiration, honesty, thought, and positiveness you exude in every podcast and Instagram post. Thank you!!! Dan V. from Kenosha, WI

I love everything about the content of this podcast! It’s been SO helpful for me personally & wonderful to share with my husband. My only *small* complaint is how quiet/far away it seems some of you are from the mic 😂or maybe your just soft spoken. When listening in the car, with the background noise of the drive…when certain hosts talk I feel like I have to turn the volume up all the way, then back down for the next host. Again, love the content & all the things this podcast offers!

I really appreciate the openness that the host have about talking about sex and sexuality in Marriage. Some thing I found a little bit annoying is how slow they talk, and how long it takes them to get their thoughts out. I listen to the podcast at 1.2 speed and I still think it’s too slow. They’re just losing me. I also think they’re not very quick to honor people that have sexual issues. I listen to the podcast about vaginismus, and I really loved it. But it was obvious that the host don’t really know much about vaginismus or what it’s like to have painful sex. I thought the interview was slow and locked inside and it seemed like the person they were interviewing was running the podcast. I just don’t think that’s great interviewing skills. And I think that the hosts are smart people! I’m not at all trying to insult them. I really appreciate a podcast that openly talks about sex. I just think that they are neglecting to talk about sexual issues a sexual complications in other areas. Overall, I enjoy it, and I will continue to listen. I just really wanted to voice that annoyance with the speed of the podcast and they sometimes talk over each other, which is really annoying. I think they could hold people that have sexual complications in honor a little bit better

I am fairly recently married (2 ish years) and it seems like we still haven’t quite gotten the hang of sex. It’s definitely improved since day one but I had felt pretty stuck as there is no one in my life that I feel comfortable talking about newlywed sex with. It felt like we were flying blind! But then we discovered this podcast and it’s been a game changer. We are able to listen and talk about things we’ve learned and it’s made us (me especially) much more comfortable with so many aspects of our sex life. So thank you for being willing to talk about the things that so many people have questions about! Y’all are the best :)

This podcast has helped my wife and I understand more about each other. The talks a pure and holy while being helpful and real. I am so happy my wife found this and then told me about it! 100% recommend!!!

I love the concept of this podcast. I believe it is a needed conversation in Christian circles. Unfortunately, the execution is poor. There was one episode I couldn’t even finish because the guest couple was fighting. They look up information during the episodes and it is very obvious they don’t have a plan before they sit down to record. Open conversation is great, but if I’m listening for 30 minutes, I want at least 27 minutes of good information. Not 15 minutes of stumbling around trying to decide who is going to say what. It also seems they have read maybe one or two books and cling to that information rather than getting a broader view on the science behind the topic.

I love this podcast! The KS team creates a space to talk about what godly sexuality looks like, especially when sex can be so taboo in Christian circles. I listened to the podcast all throughout being engaged and it definitely gave me good conversation starters with my then-fiancé and helped prepare me for the wedding night and beyond. One month into marriage and I’m still wanting to soak up all the wisdom I can. Thank you, KS :)

This podcast has helped me so much! I am newly married and KS was recommended by a friend while I was engaged and it was such a help in preparing me for what to expect. I love how this podcast has biblical foundations and points me to Christ while helping me understand my husband a little better as well as my own body. It saved me from disappointment when I thought sex would be so easy and effortless. Thanks you guys!!:) -Mia

This crew does an amazing job bringing in all the good topics we absolutely need to hear as couples! I have learned so much since listening along with them. Highly recommend, and can’t wait for more.

Kingdom Sexuality has really opened the door and given me the confidence to have hard conversations with my husband. We are both an important part of our relationship and sometimes we just need to discuss it. This podcast has helped me feel seen and not alone in what we struggle with!

This podcast (and their Instagram account) have been so so helpful to me! They touch on topics that need to be talked about and they do so in a God honoring way. Highly recommend giving it a listen!

The variety of topics on this podcast is great for thinking through things that I otherwise wouldn’t. It is nice to get a Christian perspective on a topic that the world twists so much.

I love that there’s a great boundary line between “going there” and not going too far and being kingdom minded!

Kingdom Sexuality has been helpful to me in every stage - dating, engagement, and now marriage! They have great, GODLY wisdom to share on the God’s good design for sex and sexuality! I have SO benefitted from their wisdom and knowledge, and I know you will to! :)

This podcast has been super helpful to our marriage and intimacy! We’ve been married several years but our intimate life wasn’t great. We couldn’t ever seem to figure out what worked for me and I had more or less accepted that maybe that’s just how it was. Then I stumbled on the podcast and listened to a handful of episodes. It gave me renewed hope that it was still possible. I appreciate the detailed nitty gritty of topics that generally go undiscussed in the church. Love that both the male and female perspectives are represented too. In the short 5 months I’ve been listening it has already improved our sex life and marriage greatly! Will forever be grateful to have found KS!

Kingdom Sexuality came recommended to me by a married friend when I got engaged last year and I, kid you not, I devoured (nearly) every episode before the wedding! If I could give these fantastic, authentic ladies and gentlemen 10 stars, I would!

I found this podcast about a year into our marriage, and I have loved it! The topics provide good conversation for me and my husband, giving us ways to spice it and tips for things we’ve found difficult. As someone who came into marriage knowing little to nothing about sex, it has been so nice to have a safe place to learn about sex from a Godly perspective without worrying about what inappropriate things you might stumble upon.

Are you single, dating, engaged, or married? Well this podcast is for you! I found Kingdom Sexuality when I was a single woman praying about a future husband. Now as an engaged woman who is getting married next week I am binging episodes as I try to prepare my heart, mind, and body for being a wife. So thankful for this Christian/biblical perspective on sex as I navigate this new stage in life. P.S. Yesterday I was scrolling through the Hump Day highlights on Instagram and I caught my fiancé looking over my shoulder. He said, “ I don’t know what you are looking at but be sure to bring that on the honeymoon!”

It is so inappropriate, especially as Christians to talk to another man or woman who is married about sex. You’re opening up a dangerous door and the example your setting to other married Christian’s is unwise at the least and sinful at most. I had to unfollow after learning that you’re both married to other people.

This podcast helped my husband and I navigate the early parts of our intimate lives together by encouraging us to communicate before, during, and after sex. However, the more recent episodes have lost their practicality and applicability in exchange for a focus on survey statistics, which I could find anywhere on the internet if I searched. The new episodes are not helpful for a Christian couple looking for practical tools when navigating physical intimacy within God’s design.